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Niels Pilaar

 Primal Trainee (Dutch)


In my work and personal life, I have always been fascinated by why people do the things they do and why they react in the way they do. This includes me, of course.


Whether in my roles as a Life coach, Men’s counselor, Transformation Game facilitator, or a Board member of various companies and former CEO, I experience that our childhood conditioning plays an enormous unconscious role in our daily behavior and the challenges we face. It is always the underlying ‘current’ in conflicts, and it can be the defining element between success and failure.

I followed numerous self-development courses and therapies to dig up the causes of my inner critic. Of course, I found many answers and insights; the behavior, however, stayed.


It wasn’t until I did Puja Lepp’s Primal Deconditioning retreat that I learned to integrate those insights and awareness into my body and thus into my daily life. It has been a real game-changer.

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After participating in my own Primal - Childhood Deconditioning Retreat on the magic island of Ibiza in 2015, Puja invited me into her team to support this phenomenal work. I do it for my own benefit, for that of my five children and four grandchildren and anyone else who is daring to know and change themselves for the better. I live with my beautiful wife in Eindhofen/The Netherlands.

Primal Childhood Deconditioning Retreat... for the brave and the vulnerable, the rebels, for the leaders and the change makers, for the soul activists and the truth tellers amongst you.

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